Ideal First Date

Posted By: IWANG Donald

Posted: 2/20/2001 1:40:00 AM

Comments: 0

This was culled from the old discussion board.

To the group,

I was at a party this weekend and really hit it off with a girl. We ended up partying together the entire night. I’ve never felt so attracted star struck however you would like to put it before. She was beautiful smart and friendly. I’m posting this to the group and have relayed the night’s events to a few close friends. I’m not sure what I should do since there are a few more than minor details that I know will stand in the way. So help me out and give me a few suggestions. Here’s my story:

The night started with a few people having a birthday party all teaming up together and trying to round up a hotel room to throw a small private party. The hotel room we originally planed to pick up was over priced and the specific room we wanted was not available. So I let the birthday boys do the work of finding a new hotel and proceeded inside to watch “Hollow Man” on PPV. This beautiful girl walks into the living room about half way through the movie she sit’s next to me and begins to talk to the head of the house and is playing with the little dog running around the floor. At this point I would of never have guessed I’d have the experiences to come. She left the room and I ended up staying there another 45 minutes to finish up the movie and then proceeded outside where the group is still sitting around planning the night.

So now I find out that she is currently engaged, having dated this fellow for 4 years and has already said yes to become married, I also find out that she is turning 21 as of midnight. What surprised me the most is that her fiancé forgot about a date or a get together planed and has left her out of contact for 6 hours. So after hearing all this I figure this girl is off limits.

We finally ended up getting a Executive Suite at the Ronnie Palace right on South Beach around 23rd street from what I can remember. The group was ready to go her and me where the appointed drivers to the hotel. I didn’t know how fast this girl could drive since this was the first time we hung out. This girl could drive faster than I could; I’m sitting here in a 96 BMW chasing down the road after her going 80 – 100 mph going in and out of traffic. One thing you ladies should know girls that can drive turn me on. Nothing better than a girl that can take control of a situation and get where she wants to go. So my interest peaked we raced down the highways until we hit the south beach strip. Gridlock now enters the picture so it’s me trying to follow her and the music booming away in the background.

We finally wind up at the hotel and I convinced the lady to leave my car out front just in case we wanted to bring up anything else, gave her a nice tip and the night was off and running. As we got into the room there was a huge kitchen with a marble top, a nice living room, huge balcony, and a huge bedroom with 2 queen beds. This was the first hotel room I’ve ever seen that had down blankets in satin duvets. One came close in Germany I was 17 but the size of the rooms by far didn’t compare. I started to set up a bar of liquor in to the room, most people weren’t drinking and since I’m not what you’d call an avid drug user I had a screwdriver and just started talked and joked around for a bit.

She takes her pill and started trying to ask me to take one, saying that it was her 2nd time and I should experience it with her. I’ve always wanted to try this and said I agreed and said I would in a bit. We already where smiling back and forth with each other and by this point and I am thinking to myself this girl has a fiancé I can’t be feeling this way. But what overwhelmed me was I’ve never been so attracted to someone before. I’ve dated some beautiful smart women, so I can say to myself it wasn’t her looks and be dead honest. She has a comforting voice and at 21 she is so much worldlier than anyone I’ve meet before.

I ended up dropping a pill about 45 minutes after everyone else did. I guess I’m paranoid about the whole Idea of taking something you shouldn’t. Also on the market today are pills that contain DXM a cough syrup derivative that has similar effects to MDA. So I was being careful and it was my first time so I was a bit uncomfortable with the entire idea. So now I take note of the time and start to wait for the effects to kick in. We are smiling back and forth and I’m giving her a light back massage by this point. A few minutes later I leave the room to visit with an older friend and he is just chilling on the couch so I start talking to him and seeing how he is doing. I’m still in total disbelief I actually tried it and he’s just keeps reminding me to try to relax and let it creep up on you rather than expect for something you quite don’t understand yet. I take his advice and walk back into the bedroom to lay down and look at the cutie across the room from me. But before making it to the bed I hear her voice asking me to rub her back, now I’m looking down at her with her shirt completely off laying down with her bra unsnapped uncovering her tiny little body. Someone just covered her in Vicks, I guess to make up for the lack of massage oil and I kept laughing to myself because she kept saying she felt sticky and can I rub it all in or not. To my surprise not being able to rub it in all the way was a major perk for me come 20 minutes down the road. So I start to give her a back massage asking how it feels moved from her back to her feet and them to her hands finger by finger. This entire time I wanted to just lean down and start kissing her on the neck but I felt that I shouldn’t because of the situation that could possibly put her in later, She has a beautiful neck real cute, Holding back things aren’t easy for me but my next relationship I don’t want to be based on sex or physical appeal but on a bond you can generate with someone. After I’m done I snap her bra and she run’s out into the other room because someone was calling her name, I shortly followed and we started talking for a brief few minutes.

She then runs towards the shower to get the Vicks off and a few minutes later I here her calling my name … I get to the door and see her standing completely naked and I turn my head away. She starts to ask me if I could help her get the Vicks off of her back and if I would mind seeing her naked. I think I stood at the door for a few minutes in shock but of course I said sure and would love to help out. I don’t know why but my first words entering the room was “I don’t want to Chris to be mad at me” He’s had the hots for her for a while, he’s married now and settled down but I still care about his feelings. So now there she is I can see her bodies’ curves and everything else hidden by clothing. I’m probably almost tripping over myself now and wish I could of changed my reaction and just got naked and jumped in the shower with her but instead turned on the water for her made sure it was warm and started to soap up her back. Now this for me was strange, I’ve never had a girl feel this comfortable with me so fast and just jump into this situation before. I still kept my composer and stuck to the request and got her cleaned up and left shortly after words.

I’ve now started to really feel the drug and ended up laying down and she came up to me and asked me to take my shirt off to give me a massage, I was quick to say yes to this. We went back and forth playing all night, at one point I almost had the balls to kiss her and wanted to pretty bad, I asked her if she wanted a piece of candy then put one half way in my mouth tilted in towards her she came a bit closer then I just took another one in my hand and just popped it in her mouth. The feeling came over me that I can’t do this and just backed out the only way I knew. From her point of view at this point she must have been thinking either aww this guy is so nice for not crossing the line or more of a damn not what I wanted feeling. Or maybe she didn’t catch what I was doing and I just felt like a goof myself. I’m standing in the living room with my shirt still off and she made the comment that she was very attracted to me, I don’t know why but I think I was trying to pose or show off the entire night to her, but then again I was more myself than I’ve ever been in the past. This last month has been very relaxing for me I’ve moved and taken back control of my life. Time fly’s when your having fun, She was very careful and kept her composer the entire night. After the effects started to dwindle she became more independent and resorted back into the group more, which is cool. I wish we had more time to chit chat, even though we went through several different subjects together

Now I’m at this dilemma if I should track her number down and call to see If there’s a possible future, let things go and hope she works things out with her fiancé or try to see if we can remain friends since we didn’t physically cross any lines but I think mentally we both where having sex on the sand outside the hotel with the waves crashed in around us. = )~

DawnMarie:

I would just chalk it up to a cool evening that probably couldn't be repeated (at least not with the same chickie).

Face it, she has a man and she is engaged to him. If he finds out you are after her - he could beat the crap out of you.

and if she does leave him for you - look at what just happened - she was in a committed relationship and just left at the drop of a hat. She will do same thing to you later on.

Other than that, kudos to you for a good party.

Grind

my half-ass analysis:

1. you write entirely too much

2. any girl that knows what to do behind the wheel is automatic marriage material

3. i agree with the other post: Don't chase this girl, i just can't see it ending well.

if you made the connection that it appears you did, and this was an instant, love-at-first-sight deal, she'll be knockin at your door soon enough. she doesn't seem like the shy type, if it was meant to be, she'll be back. otherwise, enjoy the time you had and move on.

Dave Bowman
quote:

I'd have to agree with this. Any chick that knows how to handle the 150hp of my car gets a wedding ring before she can say yes.

Actually, I think i've found one. She just doesn't know she's the one, is completly (well, not completly) oblivious to my feelings, and has a bad relationship bhind her. And I need to teach her how to use a stick shift properly, or I'm going to go broke from replacing it

The Other White Punk
Dude, I have to agree..if she is meant to be she will be back around for you..until she does, you need to leave her alone..plus that pill shit probably was the whole cause of her friendliness...and , yes, you do type too much...good luck

JR
Take it for what it was - a fun night. But, if the two of you get together, be careful. If she's willing to cheat on her current boyfriend, she'll do it to you too.

Another thing that bothers me is that she's engaged at 21, which I think is way too young. That tells me that there's something wrong, I don't know what exactly, but it might be just me.

Rewyn
In all honesty, I tried very hard, but I just can't help you.

I couldn't finish reading your mindless drivel. It just hurt too much.

I stopped reading after you continued to watch "Hollow Man" instead of following an incredibly hot chick out of the room.

<slap to the back of the skull> What's wrong with you? That movie sucked.

GOD
Hey!!!!

She's a HOE!, you should of bagged her that night bro. Anyways she was the fucked up one getting naked and teasing you mentally. Give her a ring and tell her you want to hang out,
Make sure you take some pics for us once she strips down again.